Texting someone you like can be exciting, especially when you spice things up with a few flirty games.
These games are perfect for breaking the ice, lightening the mood, or just having fun while getting to know each other better.
Whether you’re in the early stages of dating or keeping the spark alive, a playful text can make all the difference.
We’ve put together a list of 25 flirty games that are sure to entertain and maybe even bring you closer.
You might find out interesting things about each other that you hadn’t discovered before.
So grab your phone and get ready to dial up the charm. These games are designed to make your conversations more engaging and perhaps a little more romantic.
They’re easy to play and are perfect for anyone looking to add a bit of flirtatious fun to their texting routine.
1. Kiss, Marry, Vanish
Text each other names of celebrities or fictional characters and decide who you’d kiss, who you’d marry, and who you’d make disappear.
It’s a cheeky way to see what your friend finds attractive and can lead to some flirtatious banter.
You might find yourselves laughing at each other’s choices or even playfully arguing why one choice is better than another.
It’s a light-hearted way to explore preferences and can definitely add a flirty twist to your conversation.
2. Two Truths and a Lie
Send three statements about yourself: two truths and one lie. Let your friend guess which one is the lie.
Make your statements bold and interesting, maybe even a bit daring, to keep the curiosity piqued.
This game not only keeps you thinking but also lets you drop some hints or flirtatious facts about yourself.
3. Seductive Storytelling
Start telling a story with a romantic or flirtatious theme, and take turns adding sentences.
Whether it turns out funny, whimsical, or downright seductive is up to how you both steer the narrative.
Building a story together can be quite the flirtatious activity, especially as the plot thickens.
4. Confession Game
Take turns confessing something you’ve never told each other before.
Spice it up by focusing on confessions that are a bit bold or suggestive, raising the stakes of the game.
Sharing secrets can be inherently intimate and thrilling. It pulls you closer and can definitely turn up the heat in a playful manner, especially if your confessions are a tad flirty.
5. Guess the Emoji
Send a string of emojis to create a flirty message or depict a romantic scenario, and have your friend decode it. You can get quite creative and suggestive with the combinations.
This game can be a fun and indirect way to flirt using emojis as your secret language. The guessing and the interpretations can lead to a lot of giggles and maybe even blushes, making it a delightful game to play.
6. Rate My Outfit
Ask your friend to choose between different outfits or styles by sending pictures, and rate them from 1 to 10.
Make it flirty by adding comments like, “How hot would I look on a scale of 1 to 10?”
Keep the conversation light and fun, throwing in playful challenges or compliments based on the ratings.
Rating each other’s fashion choices can lead to teasing remarks and cheeky replies. This game is not only about fashion but also a chance to flirt by complimenting each other stylishly.
7. Desert Island
Discuss what three things you would take to a desert island but let the other person decide one of the items for you.
Make your choices intriguing or suggestive to stir up a fun debate. Maybe you choose to bring a cozy blanket or an endless music playlist, and see what your friend thinks of your survival strategy!
This scenario opens up lots of room for creativity and cheeky back-and-forth.
You might find yourselves imagining a shared adventure, which can be quite flirty and engaging.
8. Favorite Things
Share your favorites back and forth, from foods to movies to places to kiss.
Get a bit more personal by asking about favorites that could involve a partner, like “What’s your favorite romantic movie?” or “What’s the best date spot in town?”
Sharing personal likes and dislikes can subtly bring you closer, allowing for shared interests to shine and perhaps hinting at future dates or meet-ups.
9. Cheeky Challenges
Dare each other to do something slightly bold, like singing a love song and sending the audio clip or writing a short, romantic poem.
Keep the challenges light and within comfort zones to ensure the game stays fun and respectful.
Challenging each other can be a flirty way to push boundaries gently, encouraging you both to be a little daring while keeping the spirits high.
10. Dream Date Planning
Text each other describing your idea of a perfect date, down to what you’d wear and how you’d end the evening.
Make it detailed to create a vivid, romantic scenario. You could even discuss how you’d like to be swept off your feet.
Planning hypothetical dates can be quite flirty and show that you’re thinking about spending special time together.
It also gives both of you a chance to reveal what you find romantic, paving the way for real-life date ideas.
11. Emoji Flirt
Send each other flirty or suggestive emojis to communicate a message without words.
Maybe use the wink, the kiss, and the heart to show some digital affection. It’s like playing a game where you only use symbols to say something sweet or cheeky.
Emojis keep the mood light and playful, letting you both tease without saying too much.
12. Memory Lane
Share a past moment or experience that was flirty or fun, and then ask your friend to share one too.
Maybe talk about a time you felt sparks with someone or a moment that made you blush.
Taking a trip down memory lane can be a heartfelt way to connect. You get to share special memories and perhaps build a deeper bond over past flirty experiences.
13. Guess the Gesture
Describe a romantic or flirty gesture, like bringing someone their favorite coffee unexpectedly or holding hands during a movie, and have your friend guess what you’re talking about.
You could describe it with hints rather than saying it outright.
This game lets you explore ideas about what you and your friend find romantic or sweet.
Guessing and describing such gestures can also hint at what each of you might appreciate in real life.
14. Pick Your Poison
Offer two flirty or romantic scenarios and let your friend choose one.
For example, “Would you rather receive a love letter or a surprise dinner date?” It’s a playful way to discuss romantic preferences and share what makes each of you tick.
Choosing between two charming options can reveal a lot about what you both value in romantic gestures, and it’s a fun way to delve into each other’s romantic side.
15. Compliment Battle
Challenge each other to give the best, most heart-fluttering compliment.
Take turns crafting compliments that are sweet, funny, or downright charming. You could say, “Your laugh could light up this entire city,” and see how they top that.
A compliment battle is not just about flattery; it’s a genuine and delightful way to express admiration.
It keeps the conversation brimming with positivity and warmth, making each text something to look forward to.
16. Would You Rather
Playing “Would You Rather” over text can lead to some hilarious and thought-provoking conversations.
Start by sending your friend a choice between two funny or tough scenarios, like, “Would you rather always have to sing instead of speaking or dance everywhere you go?” They have to pick one and then it’s their turn to come up with a question for you.
The best part about this game is that you can tailor it to be as goofy or as deep as you want. It’s a great way to learn more about each other’s preferences and imaginations.
Plus, you never run out of things to ask, so the game can keep going as long as you both are having fun.
17. Truth or Dare
Truth or Dare over text can be just as thrilling as in person.
Dare your friend to send a funny selfie with a kitchen spoon or confess their most embarrassing moment.
Make sure the dares are something that can be done at home and the truths aren’t too personal—keep it fun and respectful.
What makes Truth or Dare exciting is the unpredictability. You might discover funny facts about each other or see your friend complete a silly challenge.
Plus, it’s a great game for building trust and camaraderie while sharing laughs.
18. Fill in the Blanks
Start a sentence and leave a blank for your friend to fill in, then swap roles.
For example, you might text, “Never have I ever _____,” and let them complete it with something funny or unexpected.
This game sparks creativity and can lead to discovering fun facts about each other.
What keeps the game interesting is how unpredictable the answers can be. You might get a peek into your friend’s wild side or just share a good laugh over the quirky things you come up with.
19. Song Lyrics Challenge
Challenge your friend to recognize a song from just a few lines of the lyrics you send.
Or mix it up by texting emojis that hint at the song title or lyrics, and have them guess. You could send a heart and an ear to hint at “Listen to Your Heart” by Roxette.
This game is great because everyone loves music, and it feels like a mini-quiz that tests your playlist knowledge.
Plus, it’s a cool way to share your favorite tunes and maybe find new music you both enjoy.
20. Mystery Photo Game
Snap a close-up photo of something around your house and have your friend guess what it is.
It could be a zoomed-in picture of your pet’s fur, a corner of a book cover, or a part of a lamp. The closer and more abstract, the trickier it is to guess.
Laughing at each other’s wild guesses makes this game a fun way to break the usual text routine.
Plus, it’s a creative way to make your everyday surroundings a bit more interesting and interactive.
22. Word Association
Text a word to your friend, and they reply with the first thing that comes to mind.
Then, you do the same with the word they sent. Start with “beach,” and they might reply “sunscreen,” which could lead you to say “summer,” and so on.
The connections you make can be surprising and often hilarious, revealing how differently your minds work. It’s a simple way to keep the conversation lively and spontaneous.
23. Dream Vacation Planner
Pretend you’re planning a dream vacation together.
One starts by suggesting a destination, then you both take turns adding details like where you’d stay, what activities you’d do, or what food you’d eat there.
Planning a fantasy trip is not just fun; it also lets you dream big and learn about each other’s perfect getaway.
You can be as realistic or as imaginative as you want, making it a great escape from the daily grind.
24. Guess the Character
Think of a character from a book, movie, or TV show and describe them without naming them.
Use clues like their traits, famous lines, or things they’ve done. Your friend guesses who it is, and then it’s their turn to stump you.
You’ll get a kick out of trying to outsmart each other with tricky clues and obscure characters.
The game also brings out your creative side as you think of clever ways to describe well-known characters.
25. Fashion Police
Send each other photos of strange or funny outfits from the internet and take turns being the ‘fashion police’ to critique them.
Keep the tone light and fun, focusing on the wild styles rather than personal appearances.
You’ll share a good laugh over some of the ridiculous trends and maybe even get inspired to try a daring new look for a laugh. The game is a great way to chat about something different from the usual topics.
